They say that opposites attract. Perhaps because they bring something new and exciting into a relationship. But if you are looking for that perfect soulmate, you may want to consider someone more like yourself. Perfect soulmates are persons who share life, love and laughter together. They share the hard times as well as the good times, and they are willing to stick together through thick and thin by working together rather than going it alone.
Instructions
Things You'll Need:
- Honesty
- Self-confidence
- Self-esteem
- Respect
- Trust
- Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.
- Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.
- Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.
- Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?
- Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship. Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness.
